It has been a very painful experience watching the children suffer the agony and torment as pawns in a game intended to hurt the one who loves them the most. As a parent our purpose in life is to love and protect your children. It is our responsibility to do so. We are to die protecting our young if need be. It is instinctual it is not something that we learn in a book or an option.
So when a child is born to a woman who is defective, and who has no instincts to protect and care, while continually hurting and neglecting the children, it should not only be expected but understood, that the parent who is not defective will do what he is suppose to do instinctively, and that is to care for, and protect his children from anyone that harms them even if it is their own mother.
It goes against nature to force a parent to have to watch their child being abused for no other reason than the abuser has rights. Abusers should have no rights to their children. We are becoming a society of abusers because it is allowed, and even encouraged allowing the abusers to continue to abuse and to create more abusers in the aftermath.
When are the courts going to recognize that not every mother or every father is wired correctly. More and more women are defective. More and more women are hurting their children and for no reason other than because they can.
Sitting by and witnessing a child who was a loving bright and perfect child grow up to become a manipulative, scamming, conniving, teenager living a dangerous life because of it, and knowing she didn’t have to become what she is becoming, and that it could have been prevented is a troubling feeling. Knowing you were helpless to stop it doesn’t make it OK or make it where you feel OK about it.
All that is left is to pray that by Gods Grace she will find her way free and learn to love herself and love someone else someday. And to find someone to love her without her abusing him, as she has learned from her mother. May the cycle end one day.
The sad thing is she is going to be 14 in a couple of weeks and it looks like the only hope for her is once she grows up and becomes a women, and makes the choice to find out why she is so miserable, and has been all her life. Whats really sad about this is that women are usually in there 40’s and 50’s before they reach this stage, so that means she still has a good 30 to 40 years to suffer when it could have been avoided when she was just three years old. And in those 30 or 40 years there will be her children who will ultimately be effected and the cycle goes on.
That makes me cry, it makes me angry, it is outrageous. There is no excuse for this. When are the courts and the laws going to change? When will the children come first?