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The Right Not To Be Bullied
- Another tragic Death due to being Bullied
- The University of Michigan Health System information on Bullying.
- Actively Aware: Law Professor Fired For Being Stalked In The Workplace
- Actively Aware: Monday4 the Missing, Roxanne Paultauf
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- Women in Crime Ink: Left for Dead
- NARCISSIST in positions of authority
- Narcissism in the Boardroom Posted on August 15, 2008 by samvaknin
- Bully at Work Posted on August 15, 2008 by samvaknin
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Lovefraud
- I, Psychopath: Watch the documentary onlineThree years ago, on November 30, 2006, I received an e-mail from Sam Vaknin, Ph.D. Perhaps you’ve seen Vaknin’s name on the Internet. He wrote and self-published a book called Malignant Self-Love—Narcissism Revisited. He promotes the book heavily online, so if you Google “narcissism,” his website on narcissistic personality disorder comes up on the first pag […]
- After the sociopath is gone: Your best life yet!There was a time when all I felt grateful for was the absence of his voice, for just an hour or two from the phone. There was a time when what I was most grateful for was knowing he was somewhere else, somewhere where I wasn’t. There was a time when I was grateful not to think [...]
- Thanksgiving—count your blessingsBy Ox Drover I’m sure we have all heard the old saying, “I cried because I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no feet.” This “old saying” is true, though I think it is made up to inspire some guilt in us for complaining about the small things we lack and make [...]
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Hyper vigilance and PTSDEditor’s Note: Lovefraud received this story from the member who writes as “Duped.” In hindsight, I remember questioning the little green things on the dinosaur nuggets he prepared for dinner. I was surprised he’d made the effort, in response to much nagging about not pitching in. It was late and I’d just returned from teaching an [...]
- BOOK REVIEW: Perfect PreyLovefraud first heard from Liz Cole, author of Perfect Prey—Surviving a Cyber Shark’s Romantic Fraud, back in 2007, shortly after she realized that the guy she met on the Internet was a sociopath. The guy called himself John Hill, although that wasn’t his real name. Liz wrote: In my case, John presented himself as: an Irish born gentleman, well [...]
- Healthy GivingBy Ox Drover Thirty years ago I met a special lady, she was my next-door neighbor’s sister-in-law. She had grown up in Italy during WWII. Her father was a “slave” to the government and worked for them. In exchange, he was given at least a limited amount of food. He loved his children and gave all [...]
- When nurture becomes natureThere comes a time when nurture becomes nature. This is the time when nurture and nature become inextricable, inseparable. I suspect nobody knows precisely when this point arrives in the development of a given individual, but the immediate ramification is this: When you are involved specifically with a sociopath, or any exploitative personality, it is [...] […]
- Your voice. It counts.When I was with the man whose lies no longer hurt me, I believed he held my freedom in his hands. I believed I could only be free with his love. With his words. His voice feeding me the lies I called the truth. The lies I believed were truth and was too afraid to [...]
- Judge Judy hears case about rape and the abuse of the legal systemA Lovefraud reader sent a link to a Judge Judy program on YouTube. Judge Judy, Get Unshocked In this case, the plaintiff, Paul Baker, has filed a lawsuit against his ex-wife, Casey Bell. Baker says that Bell falsely accused him of rape, which caused him to spend time in jail, lose his job as a firefighter, [...]
- Recovering from a sociopath: acceptance and focusing on nowLovefraud has heard from a woman who we’ll call “Sally.” Sally is dealing with a sociopathic man who threatened to kill her, sabotage her daughter’s career and injure other family members. She says law enforcement either doesn’t believe her or doesn’t care. Sally has been in touch with another of the sociopath’s victims, and they’ve helped [...] […]
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